A Lover’s Tiff…? Nope… Violent wife abuser? Yip!

Please watch this video, and then read on…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hsX2MAW-gQ

Isn’t this sweet, simply a “lovers tiff”, according to Nigella Lawson’s husband, Charles Saatchi, he was emphasizing a point to her and the photos misrepresent that… so do the tears in her eyes, the fear and terror on her face…. and what I am sure are big giant bruises left behind… Yip, just a misrepresented lovers tiff… I am so glad he cleared that up….

If this is what he does out in broad daylight, in public, on the patio of a restaurant, what does he do to her in the privacy of their home, and what does he do to their kids?

Violence is not based on a certain social structure, or economic class, or on education, or lack there of, it’s based on people who are sick, who thrive off of dominating the weaker sex, who feel it’s their right to do what they want to their ‘possessions’, it’s a power thing, it’s a thing full of hate and anger, it’s got to stop…. It is NOT the victims fault, it’s not as simple as ‘well, why she doesn’t pack the kids up and leave’ and anyone who says so needs to stand in these women and children’s shoes, just for one day… To see the scars, physical and emotional…. to see the years of emotional abuse, that have broken them to the point where they feel there is no place to turn… no one who can help, and that it is their fault….

It’s our fault, who ever had the damn camera should have put it down, gone over there and put a stop to the obvious abuse…. Someone should have stopped it…. plain and simple, no ifs ands or buts… you see someone being hurt, you stop it, you call the cops if you are at risk, but you make damn sure you don’t leave that situation until the person is safe….At the very least the person with the camera should have stood in front of him, so Charles (Mr. Lovers Tiff) could at least see his actions were recorded and he would stop… Somehow, some way, it is our absolute duty to protect those who cannot protect themselves…  And whether the victim is a famous, rich, white female, or an impoverished person of colour; whether they are sitting outside a fancy, expensive restaurant or if they are in the park in the poorer section of town… if they are being hurt we step in…. we help… end of story.

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2 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. limeleopard
    Jun 17, 2013 @ 23:27:40

    I don’t particularly have a soft spot for my neighbor, but when I heard her (ex)boyfriend hit her, I busted into her apartment and went toe to toe with a man much larger than myself. My husband didn’t like that I put myself in danger, but understood when I explained that no one, no matter what, deserves that. I could not sit and listen to what happened and “mind my own business” and the neighbor’s boyfriend told me. I stood up to him, while my husband (and her cowardly friend I won’t go on about) took her outside and told him he disgusted me. I told him that he wasn’t a man at all, and that he was a coward, and if he didn’t leave right then, that I would make sure he did one way or another.
    My neighbor was extremely upset and kept apologizing. I told her there was nothing for her to be sorry for, at all. She was and is extremely grateful and continues to tell me how much safer she feels living alone, with my husband and I there if she needs us.
    It doesn’t matter who is being hurt. As a fellow human being, no one should stand and let something like that happen to anyone. man, woman or beast.

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    • lalitababy
      Jun 17, 2013 @ 23:36:59

      I remember you telling me this and I remember being so proud of you… and for the first time I realised why my family worries about me so much… because, like you, I’ve gone up against some big guys to protect the innocent…. but I just can’t/won’t stop… from now on I will, however, call the cops as I’m running head first into trouble 🙂

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